In some large cities, you’ll find some special A.A. meetings — for police officers, members of the clergy, young people, doctors, LGBTQ members, Different Language-speaking people, A.A. beginners, or women only. Going to some of these when we are new in A.A. may ease the recovery path at first, but the happiest, healthiest recoveries seem to come to people who go to all kinds of A.A. meetings, not only the special ones. We have found it unwise to limit our A.A. circle to folks exactly like ourselves. Segregation gives our “uniqueness” an unhealthy emphasis. We find it more enjoyable, and more healing, to get into the mainstream of A.A. life and mingle with everybody else, not just “different” people. Here we are. We are all different. We are all pretty special people. But we are also all alcoholics and all sober in A.A. together. In this, we are more like each other than different. Here in A.A., we find the shared humanity that enables us to live out our widely differing lives and pursue our separate and individual destinies.